I think i am dating a sociopath
Which for any couple I think is a trying, instructive time in learning how the other person works.
Once you had that information, did you feel like that helped you move through conflicts more easily?
They don’t feel bad after an argument; they don’t “do” remorse. Their focus is very good, and if they want you, they’re totally focused on you. Wait until they’re bored with you — their attitude will change very quickly. They swear how ‘bad’ that person is, how useless they are and why they‘re to blame.
It’s like they have a few key “tools” missing from the emotional toolbox the rest of us have. They seem to make a lot of mistakes As you get to know them, you notice they make a lot of mistakes, and they don’t seem to learn from these. They seem exciting Sociopaths often take risks, sometimes it seems like they’re exercising bad judgement. It’s easy to get drawn into the excitement and buzz they can generate.
It took a while before I started seeing more signs. Honestly, it was pretty much just that her reactions to things were atypical, if you would.
When she and I talked, her characterization of her response to things was that if someone told her something upsetting or sad, she would probably just receive it as a clinical fact.
She’s a very, very smart woman, and she can handle herself. It gave us some quick answers and helped to better understand where we were at, where she was at, and in the long term, where we went from there.Statistics vary — some say 1 percent of the population is sociopathic and others say 4 percent. You pull them up on their unreliability, and they swear they’ll change. They do things at the expense of others While they’re into you – when you’re first dating – you may not personally be harmed by them. They seem not to care if they’ve upset others, or they laugh at other’s misfortunes.So if you’re single and dating, you’re likely to come across one … Here are some key signs to watch for: They’re full of excuses. They accuse you of being paranoid When you’ve caught them out in one too many lies, they’ll turn the tables. Sociopaths are incredibly cunning at making you appear to be in the wrong.There’s really no difference here because of a diagnosis.
She’s just a little harder to read, or be read by, than most people.Have you just had an experience with a man or woman that left your head spinning?