Dating a man with kids and an ex
I never thought our relationship would become as serious as it did in the first place.I loved him very much but I just wasn't about that life.This put a strain on everyone and the kids would often miss the first few days of school each [term].Anyway, my school holidays ended up not being actual holidays.Occasionally it got frustrating that we had to make our evening toddler-friendly. I found the lack of quality alone time, spontaneity, and stability to be too great to overcome.
How did your life have to change because of your choice to be with this person?
Like I wanted to see the same person consistently, but I wasn't looking to plan for a future, so I didn't mind dating people with kids as long as they wanted the same thing, which he claimed he did at first.