34 year old man dating 21 year old
This is the most compelling reason behind why younger women might go for older men: they’re daddy substitutes.
An older man’s going to be the strong, nurturing guy who takes care of her, teaches her, and treats her like a princess — the kind of relationship that she probably lacked growing up.
It’s a lot easier for a man to take out a carefree, responsibility free, baggage free, wrinkle free 28-year-old, which is why so many men try to go in that direction. Men want much younger women, but rarely do much younger women want older men.
Only difference is a 21-year-old will make her decision based purely on how fun and entertaining you are.
A 31-year-old is much more discerning and needs to see more before she’ll say ‘yes.’ When I approach a 31-year-old at a bar, I do my best to demonstrate that I have value. She’s been in the workforce long enough to have dealt with professional adults, she’s probably making a decent living and she wants a man who can match her.
They’re more experienced, more chivalrous, and more likely to want to settle down than a twentysomething party boy.
And yet, they probably resemble Penelope’s dad more than they resemble her brother….When you get the differences between chicks in their 20’s and chicks in their 30’s, you’ll do things differently.