21 year old dating 30 year old


14-Feb-2020 11:15

He recently asked me out and says he has feelings for me and loves everything about me. I don't think it be important because we said we won't care about our past we will care about our future that'sit pls help me if you guys know this situation. Before i ask my question i will say the summer of our relationship in this six months: At the begging she pritend her self as a student and who lookinf for a part time job like me i was looking too. He flew 8 hours once a month over the weekend so we can spend time together. I admit that sways my decision towards giving it a go despite my reluctance in the beginning.She interdused er self as a normal person untill a night we decided to break up to gether because i refused to interdused er to my mom,she tell me her realy story and thr things he does, she had got married and she has a 6 years doughter but now she live with her friend in a house, she was a *****, even when he was with her husband, her husband knew that because this job had realy good money and their age as a young couple, she explained how she get in this job and why she did that, and she got some mental problem because of her separation and losing some of her benefits in her life, but because i loved her i decided to stay with her and work on her very hard untill she stop that job and she back to her normal life, even i all the time to stay with her and give her some hope to stay as a person in this society and she's medical term are going to finish. I'm in the same position, Im a 20 year old guy, and my girlfriend she 31 years old, if you are ready and know what you tell her, what in your mind and she will help you out, and that just makes her feel more special because she knows now that you really want to be with her and your doing everything to be with her. It also helps that he is intelligent and has a calmer disposition against my more tumultuous moods The relationship didn't work out not due to the age factor but because of our differences in personality (the irony that it was the one that attracted us in the beginning) and sadly, lack of communication.

I'm feeling so much guilt and I question myself and who I am and if I'm a bad person now, but he makes me feel alive and happy and I don't know how else to explain it, men my age make me feel old or are so stressed or anxious, he is just so relaxed and at the same time very career focused. If I had a son that age would I be ok with him dating an older woman? In other hand she say i had lots of man in my life and it is a bit hard to trust you but she said she love me and i help her to run out of her mental problem and i love her so much.I have gone on four dates with someone I met online.